Pre-Marital Relations

QUESTION: I liked my cousin but I never told it to anyone, recently he got engaged to someone else and now I cant get rid of thinking about him. I prayed, I do adhkar, I read Quran daily but i dont know why this is happening to me as I cant forget him. Please show me the straight path

20 Oct

ANSWER: This is satan messing up with your head to make you fall into sin. Pray for him and his new bride and for their happiness. Ignore these whispers and move on. Occupy yourself with constructive things and halal hobbies during free time, besides learning about your religion and trying to be a better Muslimah.

QUESTION: My sister is in Haram Relationship we did literally Everything to make her understand that this is Haram in Islam …but Sheikh she isn’t listening Due to this Sheikh their is lot of tension in Our family….my mom has gotten into Depression due to this ..

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07 Oct

ANSWER: If you are living in the west, there isn’t much you can do except to make duaa for her and remind her of Allah and threaten her to boycott her off totally. This the heavy price of living in kafir countries.

A guy broke my heart by making me believe he loves me. I wanted a halal relationship,told him speak with ur parents. He tried once and parents said no. he gave up on me. we were together for 2 years. His parents reason is that i am not from their tribe plus a foreigner. Will his parents be punished for rejecting me for this reason? will he be punished too for not trying enough?

Pre-Marital Relations

28 Aug

ANSWER: A guy does not need permission from anyone to get married to a girl. He is free to marry her if her wali agrees. Do not ask about his parents sin as they are not sinful for rejecting you or about his sin for not trying harder! You are sinful for being in a […]

My sister (28 y.o) talks to some guy on the phone at night, father and brother talked to her, she doesn’t listen, they do nothing, should i no longer live with them and is it permissible to break her face?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pre-Marital Relations

16 Jun

ANSWER: You should stay there and give her dawah once in a while with good manners, knowledge and wisdom. You have no right, none whatsoever to break her face or to lay a hand on her!

If a person who’s practicing has attached himself to a girl who is not practicing and she is in haram relationship/close to marriage can such person make dua to get married to her or is it transgression in dua?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

30 May

ANSWER: Such a person can’t be “practicing” while willing to be engaged to such an individual! This falls under the definition of dayyouth. She is not the last woman on earth!

Here in India a lot of Muslim girls are in relationship with Hindu boys, Some girls come into the relationship even after knowing everything, and some girls falls into their trap. Usually they pretend to be secular in front of muslim girls, praise Islam and muslims, be good to them, keep saying they are secular and express their fake love, and after marrying them, they show them true Hindutva.

Pre-Marital Relations, Religions

16 May

ANSWER: Mind your own business and focus on learning Islam and talking and mixing only with other muslim men and giving them dawah! Do not involve with Muslim women nor mix with them or communicate with them.

When I was younger I had a haram relationship with a non-Muslim. I have repented and married a Muslim man. However, I still miss my ex. Can I see him again in jannah?

Pre-Marital Relations, Repentance

11 May

ANSWER: Of course not! Non Muslims don’t enter paradise! You should be worried if you are going to make it to paradise yourself! Part of your repentance is to feel remorse for your sin which is obvious you don’t have!

I have been in a haram relationship for 3 years. But the problem now is he is not letting me get out of it.i have tried telling him that all this is not good, when I did he tells he will tell to my family. My family is very orthodox, he blackmails me that he will tell my family , show pics and vids of us. If that happens my mom won’t be able to take it

Pre-Marital Relations

09 May

ANSWER: This was bound to happen, as it is common in such ‘relationships’. What is the extent to which you are willing to let him blackmail you? He will soon have you physically doing his bidding, by such blackmails. You do not need to give any explanations to him whatsoever, simply cut off all communication […]

I have a girlfriend and I know Islam doesn’t allow me to contact girls, but Sheikh I love her a lot and I can breath without her, and my family now ignore to marry me I am still 18, from one side Islam doesn’t allow me, other side my parents and I love my GF a lot so what to do? I know the possible ways like prayers, adhkar but it can’t stop me

Pre-Marital Relations

19 Apr

ANSWER: If you are financially independent and can support a wife, you can marry her with her father’s consent, otherwise break off all communications with her immediately if you want Allah to forgive you. If you are ok with angering Allah and ending up in hell, you can maintain your haram relationship with her and […]

Considering the haraam relationships (basically, Girlfriend and boyfriend relationship) in which there is only chatting on WhatsApp.. I got know from you that this type of relationship is haraam.. Now my question is, does it make sense to keep such haraam relations with the intent of not hurting other’s feelings? Basically to keep such re because if he breaks up… this gonna hurt girl’s feeling ?

Pre-Marital Relations

26 Mar

ANSWER: You have a choice between two things: Break all communications in order to please Allah even if this hurts her feelings. Or Don’t hurt her feelings but end up in hell as a result! The choice is yours.

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