Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

QUESTION: I want to know why women is tested like this after marriage to keep widow mother n single sister n bear them all the time… what about my wish to live like a nuclear family with my kids and husband and have privacy of my personal space… since they are depend on husband i cant say anything but is it test with all their involvement n intereference amd justify them for every act n will i b compens

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | 0 Comments

14 Oct

ANSWER: Everyone in life is given a test on this earth. Even men are tested to provide their widowed mother, unmarried sisters and his own wife and children Men also think that women have got it made where they sit in their homes and don’t have to worry about financing a family or be responsible […]

QUESTION: In our society, when a man gives money or gifts to his parents, it is appreciated but if a daughter gives her own money that she earned to her parents, in laws usually make an issue about this and call names to such parents on taking gifts from daughters. What is the ruling on this.

12 Oct

ANSWER: The in laws have no right, none whatsoever to say anything as such and the daughter in law is not AT ALL obliged to tell them or her husband what she does with her own money or how much she earns or have!

QUESTION: What should be the general behaviour of a husband towards his relatives&siblings who openly hate his wife, insult her and want him to divorce her? My husband remains quite on spot when i am insulted and later confronts them in my absence.This hurts me.Also, he will be angry for a moment but after a few days will be laughing with them like nothing happened.So, they keep repeating it.

Fiqh of Marriage, Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses | 0 Comments

18 Sep

ANSWER: She shouldn’t be free mixing with men who are non mahram. If she is not living with them in a joint family system, she can demand from her husband a separate home as this is her right in Islam. If she is already living separately, she is not obliged to ever meet them. This […]

Is it compulsory for women to serve in laws. Make it clear plz .also i have asked my husbamd so many times to provide me sperate accommodation but he just ignore me.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

23 Jun

ANSWER: She is not obliged at all to serve her in laws. Her duty is towards her husband and children. She has all the right in islam to ask her husband for a separate accommodation. Your in laws have no say or right in this. He must fear Allah and give you your rights. However, you […]

Am I answerable to my brother in laws for not staying in my father in laws house with them and rather staying in husbands rented house or at my mother’s house in vacations?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

16 Jun

ANSWER: You are not answerable to your brother in law nor your parents in law, in fact you must not be communicating with him at all as he is a non mahram to you.

My in laws doesnt want me to use my own phone in their home & they keep on pressurising me & my husband on this topic even though Ive been really good with them while maintaining my Aqlaaq they keep on taunting me for no reason now the problem is they&my husband are asking me to leave my phone at my parents home (Note:My Husband is in a lot of pressure coz of his family)

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses

08 Jun

ANSWER: Your in laws have no right, none whatsoever over you! They have no right in stopping you from using your phone or anything! Your husband must man up and provide you a separate house as this is your right in islam. My motherinlaw is bing vry aggressive and vile towards me, I’m not allowd […]

I got a lecturer job in a well reputed organization after chasing this dream for 18 years. My husband stands beside me in this scenario. He allows me to do this job but unfortunately, my father in law is refraining me from doing this job. He is not allowing me. What to do in this case? It is so disturbing for me.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Jobs

08 Apr

ANSWER: If its a segregated working environment and you abide by the proper Islamic hijab then no problem in doing it since you got your husband’s permission. But if you teach men as well or mix with men, this is totally prohibited even if your husband approves it as it is prohibited in Islam! Your […]

I’m so much worried about my marriage. My father-in-law is step father to my husband and he keeps on controlling our marriage. I was silent till the moment. Now, I want to do a job and my husband has no issue about it. He allows me but my FIL refrains me from doing this job. It is a teaching job with good incentives. Kindly guide me shaikh what to do in this scenario

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of the family, Mahram

28 Mar

ANSWER: This man is not related to you and he is a non mahram to you and you must not mix or communicate with him. Stop all communications with him. Only your husband’s real father is your mahram. This man has no authority over you or your husband. If your husband is fine with your […]

My husband constantly wants me to spend time with his mother who is easily bored. I try from my end but my MIL is difficult and it is straining my marriage. She is always unhappy and complaining. He doesn’t let me visit my mother much as he wants me to spend time with his mother & doesn’t like my family. I’m always caught in the middle of a blame game. I don’t know how to keep her happy & busy.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws

20 Jan

ANSWER: You are not obliged to entertain his mother or obey him in this. Simply be polite to her in the best way you can and call your mother on the phone in order to check up on her often without telling your husband.

I’m going to foreign country for my work. I’m married since 5 months. And my mom died 2 years ago. I live with my wife, my father and my little sister. And my 2 sisters are married. Should I take my wife with me to that foreign country or leave her at home to take care of my father. My wife is pregnant…

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

12 Jan

ANSWER: Of course you must take her with you! She is not your parents’ or siblings’ servant!

Categories